Good morning could say another day another dollar, but I don’t work and such I don’t get another dollar each day so I really shouldn’t say that, how about I say Spring has sprung a leak…………..yeah yesterday was a lovely spring day and today it is cold and miserable looking again. It is supposed to rain for the rest of the week but as yet it hasn’t.

Today is Leo’s dress rehearsal for his concert and the night of the concert is Thursday, why do they have to have these things at night and don’t say because it is held out of school hours they could hold it on a Saturday or what the hell hold it during school hours and yes I know parents work and can’t make it during school hours and I am only thinking of myself, so shoot me………….

Moving on do you have false teeth?

If so how often do you wear them, I have partial upper and lower teeth and I usually only wear them to eat as I find them annoying but recently I have thought I would like to wear them more so last night I decided to do what my sister recommends and wear them to bed she things if you sleep in them your mouth gets use to them. So I wore them to bed but after a couple of hours I had to get up and go to the toilet and had to take them out as they wore bothering me.

I just put them in again and already they are annoying me and I want to take them out, Jessica says I sound funny with them in and I know I do which is another reason I don’t wear them very often. However, I know if I don’t wear them I will never get use to them and such it is like catch 22, I think……….

My nan has false teeth and I never saw her without them, in fact she always wore them till she went into the nursing home, now she doesn’t wear them at all as after she had been in the home a while she started to complain when the staff went to put them in so they stopped doing so and now her mouth has shrunk and they don’t fit any more and anyway she no longer knows how to chew and can only have soft food.

My mum also has false teeth has done since she was in her 20’s and we rarely see her without her teeth although like nan she has full plates, mum puts her teeth in as soon as she gets up and they stay in all day and that is what I would like to do if only I could get used to having them in all the time.

Yesterday Jessica had to take the 12 seater van back into work and swap it for a 8 seater Targo and although the Targo is newer and nicer she doesn’t like it and wants the 12 seater back, which she should get back tomorrow. Leo was excited about another car to ride in.

What else? I can’t think of anything else so I guess I will end this here and post it because what is the point in writing it if I don’t post it…………..

Remember I like comments, like all bloggers do, really what blogger doesn’t like comments, so leave me one and I will of course read it and reply because that is just good manners.

Good morning world it is a nice morning here in my part of the world, and it is also the start of Spring and it is kicking off on a high note, it is dry and warm it’s supposed to be a nice 24°C today which for those who don’t use Celsius that’s 75°F.

Over the weekend I did bugga all, ok Saturday I did go out and get Leo another pair of school shoes and a couple of other things and I went to the library but that was all. Yesterday I did nothing accept 2 loads of washing which I was able to peg out to dry as it was a lovely day out.

My mum is at last sounding and feeling much better, the antibiotics have helped so I think we will be going to see nan on Wednesday, haven’t been for two weeks as mum has been too sick to go.

On Friday Jessica took her work car in and swapped it for a 12 seater van, she was told she was getting an 8 seater car but they gave her the van.. Before giving it to her someone took her out for a drive in it to see how she could handle it and she was told by the guy that he had no worries about her driving it as she handled the van just fine. Jessica, however, feels it will take her a little while to get use to driving something so big but at the same time she likes it and it should stop the fighting in car between the children she drives.

She has also decided to get Leo into OOSH a couple of more mornings a week as her first pick up is in Belmont which is on the way to my place so she will drop Leo off at OOSH and then start her run picking up the child in Belmont first this means I will not have to drive Leo to school as often but I will be picking him up from school as OOSH costs more in the afternoon because they give the children afternoon tea. Leo loves OOSH so I expect he will be happy.

You know last night I was in bed at 6.50pm I was so bloody tired and at risk of becoming over tired if I stayed up any longer, however, at 7.40pm Jessica comes in and wakes me to pack Leo’s school lunch for today and to find him some school clothes I was so tired I did it all in sleep like state.

Oh yeah mum was telling me last night that her and dad went out yesterday with Dave’s family to some place in Edgeworth that has miniature trains and trains you can ride on around the area, they were there all day and mum said that her and dad had a great time and thought that Kathy’s girls and Blain & Leo might like the place. You have to take your own food and drink and have to get there early as it gets quiet crowded.

I remember many years back when my girls were only little that Tim’s father talked about going there but we never got around to doing so but we didn’t like spending a lot of time with Tim’s side of the family mostly because they are all weird people and we never felt at ease around them and of course none of them liked me they thought I thought I was too good for them which to be honest I did, this is because Tim’s family are very bogan like.

Oh yeah it is 15 days till we fly out for Hawaii and I really need to get my ass into gear and go and get the spare parts for my Cpap machine I want to take extra clips and I need a new strap for it as well. Last time we went to New Zealand a clip broke and I was screwed till we got back thankfully it broke the second last night in the country but still I think I will take spares with me this time.

Ok I think that is all so I will leave you all here and remember I like comments so feel free to leave one.

When I was younger I loved to wear high heeled shoes, in fact I was wearing them only 2yrs ago without any problem now I am not talking about stilettos but high heeled shoes. The shoes had 3-3 ½ inch wedge heels on them and I loved them.

Now though this last year I have found it difficult to wear the shoes they feel ok on but after 45-60 minutes I feel like my ankle or knee is going to give out on me and I will fall over. In fact I have fallen over a couple of times wearing them, it is like my ankle and knee are not stable enough for me to wear the shoes.

When I wear them I always take a spare pair of shoes that are semi flat meaning they have a slight heel, I can’t wear flat shoes they make my legs ache something fierce.

I feel that I may have to accept that my high heel wearing days are over because it is not a nice feeling to feel like your ankle is going to give out on you causing you to fall over.

Anyone else have this problem?

Is it just part of getting older, or is just me?

My mum used to wear heels all the time too but hasn’t worn them much in the last 15-20 years, she told me she gave up wearing them altogether after her last fall when she broke her shoulder that was in 98.

I am so like my mum I feel it is bloody lucky that I haven’t had more falls and suffered any breaks although unlike my mum I have taken calcium tablets for the last 10 years to help keep my bones strong.

The pictured shoes are not my shoes found the pictures on the internet, but my shoes are the same just different colours.

Good morning all, how is everyone on this fine Saturday morning I didn’t do five things for Friday yesterday because well I forgot.

My Friday was about as busy as always, although I did have to drive Blain to school and then come home and wait for the tow truck to pick up Jessica’s car.

Yes My Blain stayed Thursday night his mum said she wouldn’t have a car to get him to school and his school is near my house so he stayed here.

Jessica’s car well it was backfiring and stalling a lot on Monday night she drove it to her sisters place in the afternoon and when it came time to leave it backfired and stalled three times before she even got out of the street so she decided to drive it back here and stay here the night and Tim booked it into Gaspower to have it looked at.

Now because it was backfiring and stalling all the time and in fact on the 1k trip from Natasha’s to here it backfired and stalled 6 times, neither Jessica or myself wanted to drive the car to Gaspower which is about a 3k trip. So we told Tim we didn’t want to drive it and he got all pissy over it and thought we were babies.

Anyway I left it said nothing for a day then told him I thought we should have the car towed to Gaspower through the NRMA (National Roads & Motorists Association) we pay into the NRMA roadside assist so the tow cost nothing. When I brought up having it towed he was like that is a good idea, it may be too dangerous to drive the car.

Yeah Tim what changed, oh I know you want to work bitched about how your wife and daughter were babies for not wanting to drive the car and someone said they thought it might be dangerous to drive it and so you changed your mind I know you my love…………….lol

So Jessica’s car is now running ok and it only cost her $450 all up to get the backfiring to stop and of course this happened at rego time so all up again to get her car registered again it cost her $1,500. This is the third year in a row that she has had to fork out that much money to keep the car on the road.

Tim is off work today and at last going to have his eyesight checked not because anything is wrong but because at our age we should have it checked every 2 years.

Oh yeah my mum is at last on antibiotics and starting to sound a little better but she still has a ways to go before she is well it has been like a week and half that she has been sick and this is not like mum, she doesn’t get sick this is the sickest we have seen her in like 6years I think.

Despite being really sick she has been still getting up and driving grandchildren to school and daycare and going to the shops to get things she needs and then going home and back to bed. I could go mad at her but let’s be honest I would do the same.

I could have a bitch about Jessica and how she isn’t on top of things happening at Leo’s school, like the fact that there is this big school spectacular happening next Thursday night and when I asked her if Leo was in it and if so what did he have to wear.

Well she had no idea; yes he is in it and has to dress up like a bikie in black jeans, back shirt, black shoes or boats, sunglasses and a bandana for his head. So now I have to find him the right clothes and shoes his school shoes are black so he can wear them and I have jeans in his drawer and I should be able to find him a black shirt. I did tell Jessica to look for his black boots and all she could say is I don’t know where they are and in the end she made me so frustrated just talking to her about this. I feel like she is the mother she is the one who should be all over this but no it falls to me, just like his homework is all up to me. I love her but at times she makes me want to scream and yes Jessica I know you don’t like me talking about you on my blog but it is my blog and I will if I want to…………so there…………

Sorry this has ended up a long ass post, with a lot of bitching from me.

How do those dead bugs get into those enclosed light fixtures?

Why is it that no plastic bag will open from the end on your first try?

Why do people constantly return to the refrigerator with hopes that something new to eat will have materialized?

Why do Kamikaze pilots wear helmets?

Can a baby cry when it’s inside its mother?

Why does pizza come in a square box but the pizza is round?

Good morning world today I thought I would write a little about the month of August, like did you know that this year there are 5 Fridays, 5 Saturdays, and 5 Sundays and this only happens every 823 years. The Chinese call it “Silver pockets”.

Did you know about the following dates in August, if not now you do.

• 1 August is Swiss National Day.
  
• 6 August is Independence Day in Jamaica since 1962.
  
• 9 August is the National Day of Singapore.
  
• 15 August is Indian Independence Day since 1947.
  
• 14 August is Pakistan’s Independence Day since 1947.
  
• 17 August is Indonesia’s Independence Day since 1945
  
• The Philippines celebrates National Heroes Day in commemoration of the First Cry of the Philippine Revolution on August 23, 1896.
  
• 24 August is Independence Day in Ukraine since 1991.
  
• 27 August is Moldova National Day
  
• 31 August is the National Day of Malaysia.
  

  
  

Now I am sure most people know that the 1^st of August is the horse’s birthday in the Southern Hemisphere, in the Northern Hemisphere it is the 1^st of January just saying, I live in the Southern Hemisphere in case you didn’t know.

August’s birthstones are peridot and sardonyx which are green and red, the birth flower is the gladiolus or the poppy these flowers mean beauty, strength of character, love, marriage and family.

August has two zodiac signs Leo and Virgo depending on what part of the month you are born.

Damn it is cold again today; I am so over all this cold weather I think the cold weather is part of the reason that my back is hurting so much.

Jessica is much better still not 100% but she is out of bed and sitting in the loungeroom playing with her phone and complaining about how loud I have the telly.

Didn’t go to see nanna today as mum is not well and that is rare, it is not often that my mum is unwell.

This morning Leo slept in we had to wake him up at 8am to get ready for school; we leave the house by 8.30 although today it was nearly 8.40am when we left the house. After taking Leo to school I had to go and get fresh bread and nasal spray for Kathy and take it out to her, she is at work today and was having trouble breathing.

Speaking of Kathy she is not happy with herself at the moment I got a text from her the other day complaining about her weight she said her work pants don’t fit and she has no idea how to stop eating the foods she likes as she has no self-control I told her she is like her mum and nanna we all battle without weight from our late 20’s.

Jessica said she will be going back to her place tonight she has been here since Sunday night and it will be good to have room in my bed again. Tim was saying that Leo was a right bed hog last night, usually it is me that Leo is sleeping close to and hugging during the night but last night it was Tim. I don’t know if I will feel like have Leo Friday night or not I guess I will decide on Friday.

Yesterday Natasha rang me and asked if I would go over and stay with Blain while she went to the shops, he was sent home sick from school and she needed to get him some medicine and then later in the afternoon she rings and wants to know if I have $10 I can give her for food. I say give her as there is no way I would get it back and to be honest I wouldn’t ask for it back that is just not me.

Kelli is doing better she is putting pressure on her toes now when she fell over she had Daemon in her arms so when she fell she made sure she fell in a way that he wouldn’t hit his head which is why she damaged the tendons in her ankle. She says that Jono has been amazing helping with cooking, cleaning and taking care of Daemon and her.

My niece Kirsty and nephew Vaughan turn 24 today so a big happy birthday to them.

Another day another lot of pain, yes I am still in pain a lot of pain, although yesterday I was ok at times as I took one of Jessica’s strong anti-inflammatory pain relief tablets and that helped a lot thankfully Jessica gave me a second tablet which I took last night before going to bed which meant the first half of the night I slept ok but from about 3am I was in pain again and the second part of the night I didn’t sleep that well at all. I have rubbed some deep heat into my back as I am out of Voltaren.

This morning Jessica rang and wanted me to go and pick Leo up as she is sick but I don’t feel up to it, I am still in a bloody lot of pain so had to tell her no I didn’t feel up to doing it. She may not have been happy with me for saying no but I know she will get over it.

Yesterday I was out shopping at Kmart and if it wasn’t for the anti-inflammatory pain relief I wouldn’t have coped as well as I did but what sucked was that it was a wasted trip they didn’t have what I was looking for. I am trying to find some knee length bike pants or leggings to wear under a dress, of course they had them but not in my size.

Also yesterday I took Leo to the shops before I drove him home to get a toy as I had promised him I would get a toy for him and forgot on Friday but as it turned out for some reason the store I went to had the toy he wanted reduced by 50% so he got two of them instead and that made him happy.

Now a little about my sweetheart “Kelli” on Friday she had a fall while picking Blain up from school and had to be taken to hospital via ambulance. She was in so much pain that she had to have to shots of morphine at the school it was thought that she might had broken her ankle but as it turned out she hadn’t. She just had tendon damage and was told she would be in pain for a few weeks and to go home to rest the foot not easy to do when you have a two year old to look after.

Jono thankfully dropped everything and asked his boss for time off work to go to her side, he had to borrow a car and head out to the school where she was and then he went to the hospital with her after arranging for his mum to watch Blain and Sue to watch Daemon.

Now when she fell my sister Sandra rang me to tell me she had fallen, she had received a phone call from her step-son Zac’s mother (Sara) telling her that her niece had fallen over and was in a lot of pain and that an ambulance had been called. Sara stayed with Kelli along with a teacher and a couple of other people till she was taken to hospital via the ambulance. I can’t thank these people enough for all their kindness.

“A woman’s opinions are useless to her, she may suffer unjustly, she may be wronged, but she has no power to weightily petitions against man’s laws, no representatives to urge her views, her only method to produce release, redress, or change, is to ceaselessly agitate.”

Louisa Lawson, speech to the inaugural meeting of the Dawn Club. Published in July 1889.

How many people know about the suffragette movement from back in the late 1800’s and early 1900’s?

I think many of young women nowadays would have no idea about the movement and that I think is a sad thing, these women work hard for women’s rights.

The term suffragette refers to the mobilisation of the suffrage movement in America, England, Australia and New Zealand between the 1880s and the 1920s.

There were a number of organisations that were instrumental in the struggle for women to be granted the right to vote. The Australian Women’s Suffrage Society was formed in 1889, its aims was to obtain the same rights for women as were possessed by male voters.

They argued for equal justice and equal privileges in marriage and divorce, rights to property and the custody of their children in divorce. So not just for the right for all women to be able to vote in all elections which I think is what most people associate the suffragettes with.

New Zealand women had first in the world to be granted the right to vote in the national election on the 19^th September 1893.

In Australia it was South Australian women who were granted the right to vote first in 1894, followed by women in Western Australia in 1899, my state New South Wales granted women the right to vote in 1902, Victorian women were last to get the right to vote in 1908.

Australian women first voted in the second federal election in 1903, except for Aboriginal women. It wasn’t till 1962 that Aboriginal women were granted the right to vote in federal elections.

However, Aboriginal males had the right to vote from as early as the 1850’s although most people would tell you they didn’t get the right to vote till 1967 when there was a referendum to have the constitution changed to allow the Commonwealth to make laws for Aboriginals and to include them in the census.

However, as I said Aboriginals already had the right to vote although most of them didn’t know it. Legally their rights date back to the colonial times. When New South Wales, Victoria, Tasmania and South Australia wrote their constitutions in the 1850’s then gave the right to vote to all male British subjects over the age of 21 which included Aboriginal males.

In 1895 when South Australia gave women the right to vote and sit in parliament Aboriginal women were included it was in fact only Queensland and Western Australia that barred Aborigines from voting.

Very few Aborigines knew their rights so very few voted. But some eventually did. Point McLeay, a mission station near the mouth of the Murray, got a polling station in the 1890s. Aboriginal men and women voted there in South Australian elections and voted for the first Commonwealth Parliament in 1901.

Most states did not allow women to be elected to the state parliaments until the end of the First World War.

Another key association in the struggle for equal voting rights was the Women’s Christian Temperance Union formed on the 16^th November 1887; the society sought social reforms which included establishing equal moral standards for both sexes.

Today’s post is a bit of this and a bit of that, so where to start at the beginning or the end ok I will start at the end and work backwards because that makes the most sense.

I was woken up at 2.30am this morning with a phone call from my darling daughter (Natasha) she was ringing me from her house phone and had her sister Jessica on her mobile. My special girl (Jessica) rang her sister because I didn’t answer my mobile and neither did her dad, now why was Jessica ringing at 2.30am.

She was in pain with her back again, she gets this pain two or three times a year and it is so bad all she can do is cry and wants her mummy. So what did I do……………I went back to bed…………..ok I didn’t I got my pj’s on over my nightie and went to her place taking with me Ibuprofen and Voltaren Emulgel, after giving her pain medication and rubbing the Voltaren into her back I brought her and Leo home with me, she is still in so much pain there is no way she can do her morning run and I will be taking her to the doctors at 9.45am after I get back from taking Leo to school.

Speaking of Leo he is so upset about his mum and keeps telling me he wants to take her pain away and wants to know why I can’t make mummy’s pain go away.

Yesterday I had the girls here for lunch I did a baked lunch as that is the family’s favourite lunch

Let’s move back to Saturday when my precious first born (Kathy) and I took little Summer to a birthday party for Landon, now I know you are wondering who the hell is Landon, well he is Dawson’s little brother on his mother’s side. Anyway Landon turned 2 and Michelle had a party for him at Megamania and invited Kathy and Summer, she would have invited Sydney but she knew Sydney would be at her dads.

Thursday I went with my parents to Dawson’s school presentation and this time his father and Leigh also came although his mother didn’t turn up she had doc’s (dept of children services) going to her place and couldn’t get them to change the day anyway this time Dawson didn’t get any awards but the teachers had nice things to say about him and we got to see the coffee table he has been working on since the start of the year, he is giving it to his nanna (my mum).